It sucks being upset, sad, and not knowing what the hell you’re doing in life or where you’re headed.
The most therapeutic things in the world are your friends: from siblings to girls you’ve known since kindergarten. They’ll listen to you bitch, try to help figure things out as your brain is spinning, take you out for some fun, or just hand you a tissue as you sob at your dining room table. When you’re feeling your lowest, these are the people that can and will build you back up. They will critique you, as they should – nobody is perfect – so learn from their suggestions and point-of-view. This kind of support should never be underestimated or taken for granted. If you choose not to hold onto your friends, you will regret it, so figure out what is important to you. Someone just reminded me recently that the important “ones” will stick around. You can try to hold on to them, but if they don’t want to be there, let them go. It may be sad, it may be painful, but no matter what happens, life will go on.
Cheers to all my friends and thank you.
LEG UP!!! I’m almost 30!
